The pole dance community is known for its supportive and inclusive nature, a space where passion for movement and artistry transcends boundaries. However, like any community, discussions and differing opinions arise, especially when external influences intersect with our beloved art form. Recently, a particular song, titled “Prn Star Dancing,” sparked a conversation within the pole community, prompting reflections on the image of pole dance and its perception by the wider world. This article delves into the heart of this discussion, echoing the sentiments and concerns raised by members of the pole community.
The original poster, a dedicated member of the pole dance scene, voiced their apprehension about the song’s title and theme. While acknowledging the song’s catchiness and appeal, they expressed concern that associating pole dance with “prn stars” could reinforce negative stereotypes and stigmas that many have been working tirelessly to dismantle. The core of the concern lies in the desire to distinguish pole dance as a legitimate art form and athletic discipline, separate from the often-misconstrued image of “dark and dirty” connotations. The question posed was direct and thought-provoking: Does embracing this song inadvertently contribute to the very stigma the pole community seeks to overcome?
Responses to this initial post revealed a spectrum of viewpoints within the community. One commenter, Evarut, adopted a lighthearted approach, suggesting not to take the song too seriously. The argument was that songs are made about various topics, and different people engage with pole dance for diverse reasons. Drawing a humorous comparison, Evarut playfully asked, “What if the song would have been porn star cooking?” to underscore the absurdity of overthinking a song’s title.
However, this lighthearted perspective was countered by a more serious concern raised by englann86. The worry was not about the song itself, but about how the general public, often perceived as “closed-minded and dumb,” might interpret the pole community’s embrace of it. The fear was that associating with a song titled “prn star dancing,” especially with a respected figure like Jenyne Butterfly featured in the music video, could be twisted to validate pre-existing negative stereotypes. This perspective highlighted the ongoing struggle for legitimacy and respect that the pole community faces.
Workingfire brought another layer to the discussion, pointing out a perceived double standard. They observed a lack of criticism towards the pole dancing in the song’s context, contrasting it with the frequent negative comments and judgments pole dancers often face online and in real life. This observation raised questions about societal perceptions: Are pole dancers only deemed “sleazy” when they distance themselves from stripping, while glorifying stripping through a song is met with acceptance? This perspective highlighted the confusing and often contradictory nature of public opinion surrounding pole dance.
Dayanara offered a more pragmatic viewpoint, emphasizing that “it’s just a song.” Drawing attention to the song’s genre (rock) and the artist’s collaborations (Ludacris), the argument was made that it’s essentially a fun, lighthearted track, similar to many others that encourage suggestive dancing. Dayanara acknowledged the original poster’s point but suggested that this particular song might not warrant significant “outrage.” They also voiced a somewhat resigned acceptance that the association between “stripper and pole dancer” might be perpetually ingrained in public perception, regardless of the community’s efforts.
Englann86, while acknowledging that it is “just a song,” reiterated the concern about community association, especially due to Jenyne Butterfly’s presence in the music video. The point was not about outrage, but about thoughtful consideration. Should the pole community readily embrace a song that could potentially reinforce negative stereotypes simply because a respected pole dancer is involved? This perspective emphasized the power of collective choices and the importance of conscious association in shaping the community’s image.
Shayshay21489 echoed the sentiment of “just a fun song,” suggesting not to take it “so seriously.” They acknowledged the ongoing need to “prove to people and educate people” about pole dance as an art form. However, they viewed the song as simply another piece of pop culture that can be enjoyed without necessarily endorsing its title or theme. This viewpoint emphasized personal enjoyment and resilience in the face of external judgment, highlighting the inherent fun and expressive nature of pole dance.
Ultimately, the discussion surrounding “prn star dancing” reflects a larger, ongoing conversation within the pole dance community. It’s a conversation about self-perception, external image, and the choices the community makes in navigating public opinion. While some advocate for lighthearted enjoyment and individual expression, others emphasize the importance of conscious association and the fight against persistent stigmas. There is no single, definitive answer, and the value lies in the discussion itself – a testament to the pole community’s thoughtful and passionate engagement with their art form and its place in the world.
