The internet was abuzz a while back with a video clip of Miley Cyrus, then a teenager, engaging in what was labeled a “lap dance.” If you’re unfamiliar, you can view the video here. The reaction was swift and strong, with many questioning if this was a “bad move” or indicative of her being a “bad role model.”
When the “Lap Dance Video” first surfaced, like many, curiosity led to a viewing. Expectations might have been of something overtly provocative. However, what was seen was essentially a young woman dancing. The immediate thought that followed for some was, “What’s the big deal?” While opinions vary, there are several reasons why the reaction to this video might be considered an overreaction:
- Age Consideration: At the time the video was taken, Miley was 16 years old, a teenager, not a child.
- Context Matters: The dancing occurred at a club, a private setting during a wrap party, not as part of her professional work or public image promotion.
- Cultural Norms: The style of dancing depicted, while close and energetic, is a common form of social dancing, especially in club environments.
- Misinterpretation: Close dancing does not automatically equate to sexual activity or misconduct.
Miley Cyrus at a parade, captured before the lap dance video controversy.
For parents, concerns about the influences on their children are valid. It’s natural to want to shield children from potentially negative imagery. However, is it truly the responsibility of a public figure like Miley Cyrus to dictate the moral compass of every child? Should a teenager in the public eye be denied the normal experiences of youth?
Perhaps a more effective approach is for parents to engage directly with their children. Open conversations about values and responsible behavior, rather than focusing solely on policing the actions of celebrities, can be more impactful. Parents themselves are the primary role models in their children’s lives.
What are your thoughts on the “lap dance video” controversy? Was the reaction justified, or was it blown out of proportion?
