The music world mourned the loss of David Crosby, the iconic co-founder of The Byrds and Crosby, Stills & Nash, who passed away at the age of 81. The news was confirmed by his wife, Jan Dance, in a heartfelt statement to Variety, bringing focus to the woman who stood by the legendary musician for over three decades. Married since 1987, Jan Dance was not just David Crosby’s wife; she was his partner, soulmate, and a pillar of support throughout his life and career.
In her poignant announcement, Jan Dance shared, “It is with great sadness after a long illness, that our beloved David (Croz) Crosby has passed away. He was lovingly surrounded by his wife and soulmate Jan and son Django.” Her words painted a picture of a peaceful passing, surrounded by love and family. Dance continued, “Although he is no longer here with us, his humanity and kind soul will continue to guide and inspire us. His legacy will continue to live on through his legendary music. Peace, love, and harmony to all who knew David and those he touched. We will miss him dearly. At this time, we respectfully and kindly ask for privacy as we grieve and try to deal with our profound loss. Thank you for the love and prayers.” This statement not only conveyed the deep personal loss but also highlighted the enduring impact of David Crosby’s music and spirit, as seen through the eyes of Jan Dance.
Jan Dance’s Life with David Crosby
Jan Dance’s connection to David Crosby was deeply rooted in a shared love for music. Before becoming David Crosby’s wife, Jan Dance worked in the entertainment industry, a world that resonated with her passion. Reports indicate she worked as a receptionist, placing her at the heart of the music scene. Reflecting on this period, Jan Dance once remarked, “I was so in love with music. It was a great open door for me,” according to Amo Mama. She witnessed the magic of music creation firsthand, observing artists like The Eagles, Bee Gees, Eric Clapton, and Aretha Franklin at work. “It was a unique time; the studio people and the people who came to record grew together, and I could actually see a song and album be born. To me, that was the greatest gift there was.” This background provided a unique understanding and appreciation for David Crosby’s artistry and the world he inhabited.
Their relationship blossomed, culminating in a marriage at the Hollywood Church of Religious Science on Sunset Boulevard in California. David Crosby, known for his musical partnerships, found a different kind of partnership with Jan Dance. Together, they welcomed a son, Django, into their lives. David Crosby was also a father to James Raymond, Erika, and Donovan from previous relationships, and he considered his children his proudest achievement. Family was paramount to Crosby, and Jan Dance was central to this family life.
Image: Jan Dance and David Crosby share a kiss while horseback riding, reflecting their personal connection and shared moments outside of music.
In a touching turn of events, David Crosby was also the biological father of singer Melissa Etheridge’s two children with ex-wife Julie Cypher. Etheridge publicly acknowledged Crosby’s role in her family, especially after the passing of her son Beckett. “I am grieving the loss of my friend Beckett and Bailey’s biological father, David,” Melissa Etheridge shared in an Instagram post. “He gave me the gift of family. I will forever be grateful to him, Django, and Jan. His music and legacy will inspire many generations to come,” she added, highlighting the extended family that Jan Dance was a part of and the respect she garnered within it.
A Loving Farewell
Jan Dance’s statement announcing David Crosby’s death is a testament to their deep bond and the loving environment she provided. Her words resonate with genuine grief and a celebration of Crosby’s life and musical legacy. As the world remembers David Crosby’s contributions to music, it also acknowledges Jan Dance, the woman who shared his life, love, and final moments, ensuring he was surrounded by peace, love, and harmony, both in life and in passing. Her role as David Crosby’s wife was a significant chapter in his life, and her statement offers a personal and moving glimpse into the man behind the music.
