This video went viral, especially poignant around the anniversary of 9/11, resonating deeply with many. While not particularly versed in music, the song, and especially Lizzy Nelson’s heartfelt rendition, truly struck a chord. Written in the aftermath of a friend’s passing, the raw emotion of grief is palpable throughout the song. Anyone who has experienced loss can find a strange comfort in her voice, a shared understanding of sorrow.
However, it’s the lyrics that resonate on an even deeper level, highlighting a blend of hope and a profound sense of uncertainty.
What does it look like in heaven?
Is it peaceful, is it free like they say?
Does the sun shine bright forever?
Have your fears and your pain gone away?
Here on earth it feels like everything good is missing since you left,
And here on earth everything’s different, there’s an emptiness.
Oh oh I, I hope your dancing in the sky,
And I hope your singing in the angels choir,
And I hope the angels know what they have,
I’ll bet it’s so nice up in heaven since you arrived.
So tell me what do you do up in heaven?
Are your days filled with love and light?
Is there music, is there art and invention?
Tell me are you happy? Are you more alive?
The Dual Nature of Hope: Longing and Uncertainty
The element of hope is undeniable. It’s a yearning for something more, something better beyond our earthly existence. Repeatedly, Lizzy Nelson voices “I hope” in the chorus, a poignant expression of longing. Her eight questions are all inquiries driven by this hope – a hope that the afterlife is a place far better than the pain experienced here. This sentiment, “i hope you’re dancing in the sky,” captures the essence of wishing for peace and joy for those we’ve lost.
Yet, inherent in these questions is a deep-seated uncertainty. They are questions born from a lack of definitive answers. There’s no assurance of heaven’s existence, no confident description of its nature, and no comforting guarantee that her friend is indeed there, experiencing this hoped-for joy. It’s a hope tinged with the fragility of the unknown, a beautiful yet wistful expression of grief.
Christian Hope: A Grounded Certainty of Heaven
In contrast, Christian hope, rooted in the Bible, offers not just a wish but a confident assurance. It’s a hope that transcends “I hope so” and becomes “I know so.” This certainty is biblically grounded, anchored in the person and redemptive work of Jesus Christ, rather than dependent on personal merit or actions.
From a Christian perspective, we can answer Lizzy’s heartfelt questions with a resounding “Yes!” when considering a believer who has passed away. Yes, heaven is a place of profound peace. Yes, it is a realm of ultimate freedom. Yes, its light is eternally brighter than any earthly sun. Yes, all earthly fears and pain are definitively gone. While “dancing in the sky” might be a metaphorical expression, joyous celebration undoubtedly abounds. Yes, singing in the company of angels is a reality. Yes, heaven is enriched and beautified with every soul who enters. Yes, days are filled with divine love and light. Yes, it encompasses unimaginable music, art, and boundless creativity. Yes, it is a state of inexpressible happiness. And yes, it is a state of being more truly alive than ever before.
This certainty doesn’t negate the deep sorrow felt by grieving Christian families and friends. The pain of loss remains profound. There are times when we too experience the absence of goodness, the altered reality of earth, and a piercing emptiness. However, Christian hope acts as a balm, lessening the intensity of the pain and balancing it with unwavering confidence in God’s promises about heaven, the eternal dwelling place of believers, and its glorious reality.
Finding True Hope Beyond “Dancing in the Sky”
“Dancing in the Sky” beautifully captures the universal longing for departed loved ones to find peace. It’s a poignant expression of hope amidst grief. However, for those seeking a hope that is more than just a wish, Christian faith offers a grounded certainty.
It is a sincere hope and prayer that Lizzy Nelson, and all who resonate with her song, might discover this deeper, more assured hope for themselves. And may we all live in such a way that when our time comes, our loved ones can find solace and certainty, perhaps even echoing the words of Psalm 23, a psalm of confident trust in God’s eternal care, rather than solely relying on the hopeful uncertainty expressed in “Dancing in the Sky.”
Further reading: Psalm 16, 23; John 3:16; 2 Timothy 1:12; Hebrews 6:11, 17; Ephesians 1:13-14; 1 John 2:3; 5:13. Revelation 21-22.