Dirty Dancing holds a special place in my heart. Like many, when I first watched it as a young teenager, I was completely swept away. Patrick Swayze became the ultimate heartthrob, and I dreamed of experiencing a summer romance just like “Baby” did at Kellerman’s. The movie offered a glimpse into a unique world – the Jewish family summer retreats of the Catskills, a culture that, sadly, is largely a thing of the past. These resorts, like Grossinger’s, were havens for families, offering a plethora of activities from swimming and hiking to arts, crafts, and, of course, dancing. It was a place where everyone, regardless of age, could find something to enjoy and create lasting summer memories.
Last week, I unexpectedly found myself dancing into the movies and experiencing a touch of that Kellerman’s magic. I attended a “Shavuot Family Camp,” a gathering of around 30 families celebrating the Shavuot holiday at a New Jersey summer camp. This wasn’t my first time, but after a few years and a change of location, it felt brand new. Just like the fictional Kellerman’s, this camp boasted a lake, simple bunkhouses, and a bustling dining hall. Then came lunchtime on the first day, and the camp director began announcing the afternoon activities. It was a scene straight out of Dirty Dancing! I almost burst out laughing as the memories of that iconic movie scene flooded back – the list of activities echoing across Kellerman’s grounds. And the activities were strikingly similar: boating, swimming, canoeing, and, with a modern twist, spin class, a ropes course, and even jet skis.
Children and adults joyfully dancing outdoors at a Shavuot family camp, evoking the iconic dance scenes from the movie 'Dirty Dancing' and celebrating community spirit and summer fun.
Sitting on the lawn, playing Mah Jongg with friends and overlooking the serene lake, it struck me that some things truly remain timeless. Just as in Dirty Dancing, set in 1963, this Shavuot camp offered a precious three-day escape to an idyllic setting shared with other families. The younger children were happily engaged in a day camp program, giving parents a much-needed break. Tweens and teens enjoyed their newfound independence, exploring the grounds, while parents had the freedom to chat, read, play games, or exercise. Mealtimes were lively and joyful, filled with the happy chaos of families connecting. Evenings brought a cheesy yet thoroughly entertaining sing-off between parents and kids.
These three days were a reminder of the simple, “good old-fashioned fun” that Dirty Dancing so perfectly captured. In a world often overshadowed by “political and social turmoil,” this experience highlighted the enduring power of community. This gathering wasn’t organized for any grand purpose, but simply because a few individuals believed it would be enjoyable to bring people together. Initially skeptical, I was proven wrong. It was a valuable lesson: sometimes, we just need to gather with friends, with no agenda other than to have a good time. That simple act can be incredibly rejuvenating for our bodies, minds, and spirits. It was a wonderful realization to have during Shavuot, a holiday that celebrates the revelation of the Torah. The only thing missing from my dancing into the movies moment? Well, perhaps a certain Patrick Swayze.
