If you’re looking to add some excitement to your intimate moments, taking inspiration from the world of dance can truly ignite the spark. A sensual lap dance at home is a fantastic way to explore new levels of intimacy and passion with your partner. The key to setting the perfect mood? The music, of course.
Choosing the right sexy lap dance songs can transform your at-home performance from ordinary to extraordinary. The ideal soundtrack will depend on your personal taste and the vibe you want to create. Whether you prefer upbeat rhythms or slow, seductive melodies, the goal is to select music that makes you feel confident, sensual, and ready to move.
The most important element is how the music resonates with you. When you genuinely feel the music, your passion becomes infectious, making any song the best song for a lap dance. It’s about finding tracks that inspire movement and make you feel alive and connected to your sensuality.
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The magic of a great lap dance song isn’t limited to a fast beat. It could be the suggestive lyrics, the singer’s captivating voice, or simply a rhythm that moves you. These elements combine to create the perfect atmosphere for your private show. Remember, a lap dance doesn’t need to be lengthy; it’s about quality over quantity. Let the song guide the pace and intensity, and transition to the next level of intimacy when the moment feels right.
Ready to rev up your relationship and elevate your foreplay game? Here are 32 of the best sexy lap dance songs to create an unforgettable striptease experience at home.
32 Must-Have Sexy Lap Dance Songs for an Unforgettable Performance
1. “I Just Wanna Love U” by Jay-Z
“I Just Wanna Love U” by Jay-Z provides a smooth and seductive vibe, perfect for setting a slower, more deliberate pace. This track is ideal when you want to build anticipation and focus on sensual movements rather than high-energy bursts. The lyrics and beat create an atmosphere of intimate seduction, perfect for a lap dance that focuses on connection and desire.
2. “Kiss” by Prince
A timeless classic, “Kiss” by Prince brings a playful and energetic tone to your lap dance. Its iconic beat and catchy melody are guaranteed to get you moving and inject a sense of fun into your performance. Just like Julia Roberts in “Pretty Woman,” you’ll find yourself wanting to sing and dance along, making it an engaging and enjoyable experience for both you and your partner.
3. “I’m Too Sexy” by Right Said Fred
This 90s anthem, “I’m Too Sexy” by Right Said Fred, is pure fun and guaranteed to lighten the mood. Its ridiculously catchy beat encourages playful interaction. Try incorporating a clothing exchange into your dance—take off an item of yours, then one of your partner’s. Don’t be surprised if laughter erupts; this song’s inherent humor makes for a lighthearted and enjoyable experience.
4. “No Diggity” by Blackstreet
“No Diggity” by Blackstreet is a powerhouse of smooth beats and confident lyrics. The strong rhythm and male vocals create an undeniably sexy vibe. This track is perfect for conveying admiration and desire, letting your partner know just how captivating you find them. It’s a song that speaks to being completely enthralled by someone, making it ideal for a passionate lap dance.
5. “Slow Ride” by Foghat
For those who prefer a classic rock edge, “Slow Ride” by Foghat is an excellent lap dance song. Its moderate tempo combined with hard-hitting guitar riffs provides a raw and sensual energy. This song is perfect for a lap dance that’s a bit more intense and edgy, adding a rock and roll flavor to your intimate moment.
6. “You Can’t Touch This” by MC Hammer
If playful restraint is part of your lap dance tease, “You Can’t Touch This” by MC Hammer is a fun and iconic choice. The moderate beat and humorous lyrics allow for playful interaction and build-up. It’s perfect for creating anticipation and adding a touch of humor to your performance, emphasizing the tease before the release.
7. “Closer” by Nine Inch Nails
Ready to unleash your inner sensuality? “Closer” by Nine Inch Nails is explicitly erotic with a driving beat and grinding instrumentals. The intense lyrics and rhythm are perfect for a lap dance that’s all about raw desire and passion. This song is designed to bring out your boldest and most uninhibited moves.
8. “Legs” by ZZ Top
Highlight those high heels and long legs with “Legs” by ZZ Top. This classic rock anthem with its strong beat and growling vocals is perfect for showcasing your best assets. The song’s energy and focus on physical allure make it ideal for a lap dance that’s confident and celebratory of your body.
9. “Do Me Baby” by Prince
Another Prince masterpiece, “Do Me Baby,” offers timeless seduction. Its slow, sensual beat, combined with intense lyrics and instrumentals, creates an atmosphere of deep desire. A lap dance to this song is an invitation, making your partner crave your touch and embrace the song’s suggestive message.
10. “I Wanna Sex You Up” by Color Me Badd
“I Wanna Sex You Up” by Color Me Badd is pure seduction in song form. The phrasing and rhythm are designed to entice, and the beat is perfect for sensual movements without being overly fast-paced. This song strikes a balance between playful and sexy, making it versatile for different lap dance styles. It’s a great choice for setting a mood that’s both fun and intensely passionate.
11. “Wild Thing” by Tone Loc
A classic stripper anthem, “Wild Thing” by Tone Loc, delivers a solid beat and suggestive lyrics that are sure to get your partner in the mood. The catchy rhythm and explicit phrasing provide a playful yet provocative backdrop for your lap dance, encouraging hip movements and creative interaction with the lyrics.
12. “You Shook Me All Night Long” by AC/DC
“You Shook Me All Night Long” by AC/DC is a rock classic that’s guaranteed to electrify your partner. With its growling vocals, suggestive lyrics about feminine charms, and strong beat, it’s perfect for a high-energy, sexy performance. This lap dance favorite is sure to add a jolt of excitement to your evening.
13. “Poison” by Bel Biv DeVoe
Feeling a bit dangerous? “Poison” by Bel Biv DeVoe offers a unique a cappella vibe that slows things down while keeping the sensuality high. The erotic lyrics put the focus on your allure and assets without demanding a breathless pace. This song is perfect for highlighting your confidence and captivating presence.
14. “How Do U Want It” by 2Pac ft. K-Ci & JoJo from Jodeci
For suggestive and direct phrasing, “How Do U Want It” by 2Pac ft. K-Ci & JoJo is unmatched. The collaboration delivers a beat that’s perfect for swaying and mesmerizing instrumentals that enhance the seductive mood. This song is ideal for a lap dance that’s all about directness and exploring desires.
15. “Cradle of Love” by Billy Idol
“Cradle of Love” by Billy Idol is perfect for turning up the heat quickly. With its rocking vocals, fast tempo, and growling guitars, it’s a great choice when you want to inject energy and excitement into the moment. If things have felt stagnant, this song is sure to shake things up and get pulses racing.
16. “Put Em on the Glass” by Sir Mix-a-Lot
For explicit and body-positive vibes, “Put Em on the Glass” by Sir Mix-a-Lot is perfect. This track encourages body movement and sensuality with its hard-hitting beat and direct lyrics. It’s excellent for incorporating belly dancing-inspired shimmies and sensual undulations into your routine, ensuring a hot and passionate experience.
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17. “Naughty Girl” by Beyoncé
Feeling a little mischievous? “Naughty Girl” by Beyoncé is your anthem. Beyoncé’s soaring vocals, combined with a slow, sensual beat and captivating instrumentals, create a tone of playful seduction. This song is perfect for building anticipation and showcasing your confidence and allure during your striptease.
18. “Freak Like Me” by Adina Howard
“Freak Like Me” by Adina Howard is designed for sensual exploration. Its amazing instrumentals and slow beat provide the perfect backdrop for engaging your partner’s senses. This track is ideal for slow, deliberate movements and incorporating accessories like silk scarves or feathers to enhance the sensual experience.
19. “Sweet Dreams (Are Made of This)” by Eurythmics
If you need to vary the pace, “Sweet Dreams (Are Made of This)” by Eurythmics offers dynamic shifts. The changes in beat between verses and chorus provide natural breaks and build-ups in your performance. This song helps you manage your energy and maintain a captivating performance without rushing, ensuring you end the night breathless from passion, not exhaustion.
20. “Freak Me” by Silk
“Freak Me” by Silk is the epitome of slow and sensual. Its beat is perfect for slowing things down and creating an intimate atmosphere. With sexy phrasing, smooth vocals, and sweet instrumentals, this song invites a passionate slow dance that emphasizes graceful, sensual movements and intimate connection.
21. “Ride” by Ciara ft. Ludacris
For something unique, “Ride” by Ciara ft. Ludacris stands out. Its slow but strong beat, combined with magical instrumentals and soaring vocals, creates a captivating and powerful vibe. This song is perfect for showcasing your individuality and confidence, proving why you’re unlike anyone else.
22. “LoveGame” by Lady Gaga
“LoveGame” by Lady Gaga is high-energy and perfect for making you feel like the star of your own private strip club. Its upbeat tempo and catchy rhythm are ideal for dynamic dance moves and a confident, show-stopping lap dance performance.
23. “Teenage Dream” by Katy Perry
For a romantic touch, “Teenage Dream” by Katy Perry adds a layer of sweetness to your lap dance. This song is perfect for expressing affection and desire, making your partner feel cherished and adored. It brings a blend of sultriness and romance to your intimate moment.
24. “Hold It Against Me” by Britney Spears
No sexy playlist is complete without Britney Spears. “Hold It Against Me” features clever lyrics and a beat made for lap dances. The song’s playful yet suggestive nature makes it a fun and engaging choice for your performance.
25. “Like A Virgin” by Madonna
If it’s your first lap dance, “Like A Virgin” by Madonna adds a playful, iconic touch. Embrace the theme with a corset or 80s-inspired makeup for added fun. The song’s recognizable rhythm makes it easy to dance to, even for beginners, and its iconic status adds a layer of playful nostalgia.
26. “Side to Side” by Ariana Grande
“Side to Side” by Ariana Grande brings a modern pop vibe to your playlist. This track, known for its high energy, transforms into a steamy soundtrack for a private lap dance. Its catchy beat and confident energy make it perfect for a contemporary and sensual performance.
27. “Shape of You” by Ed Sheeran
“Shape of You” by Ed Sheeran is undeniably sexy and body-positive. This song highlights physical attraction and is perfect for celebrating your body and moves. Your partner will be captivated by your confidence and sensuality as you dance to this popular hit.
28. “Curious” by Hayley Kiyoko
For WLW and lesbian couples, “Curious” by Hayley Kiyoko offers a seductive and relatable narrative. The song’s siren-like quality and music video create a mood of intense desire and allure, perfect for a deeply sensual lap dance experience.
29. “S&M” by Rihanna
Embrace your bold side with “S&M” by Rihanna. This track is perfect for showcasing your kinky side and exploring themes of dominance and submission in a playful way. Rihanna’s unapologetic attitude encourages you to embrace your desires and add a daring edge to your lap dance.
30. “Movement” by Hozier
“Movement” by Hozier brings a bluesy, soulful vibe to your playlist. This song is a celebration of dance and sensuality, perfect for a lap dance that’s fluid, expressive, and deeply connected to the music. Hozier’s emotive vocals and rhythm will inspire movement and passion.
31. “Promiscuous” by Nelly Furtado ft. Timbaland
“Promiscuous” by Nelly Furtado ft. Timbaland is flirty and fun, perfect for a playful lap dance. This duet encourages interaction and lighthearted teasing, drawing your partner into a fun and flirtatious exchange. If you’ve played this on “Just Dance,” you’re already prepped for the real performance!
32. “SUGAR” (Remix) by Brockhampton ft. Dua Lipa, Ryan Beatty & Jon B
For a modern club vibe with a romantic twist, “SUGAR” (Remix) by Brockhampton ft. Dua Lipa, Ryan Beatty & Jon B is ideal. This track blends club beats with love song lyrics, creating a unique and sexy atmosphere. It’s a contemporary choice that’s perfect for ending your lap dance playlist on a high note.
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Sean Jameson is a sex expert and founder of the Bad Girl’s Bible website, where you can learn advanced techniques to improve your sex life.
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This article was originally published at Bad Girls Bible. Reprinted with permission from the author.
