I used to dread working out. Throughout my six years of track and field and cross country in high school, exercise felt like a chore. The mandatory gym class fitness tests like the PACER, push-ups, and mile run were something to be endured, after which I’d vow to avoid working out at all costs. I never imagined my perspective would completely change when I got to college.
But it did.
During Winter Term, a micro-internship provided me with free time outside of work. Searching for something to fill that time, I signed up for classes at a Circus and Aerial Arts school about twenty minutes away. That Monday, I noticed they offered pole dance classes. On a whim, I decided to sign up.
The Sunday before my first class, my initial enthusiasm waned. What had I gotten myself into? I had zero dance experience (unless you count ballet from over a decade ago), not much flexibility, and limited strength. The idea of feeling confident and sexy in a dance class felt miles away from my comfort zone in competitive Speech and Debate. Even before stepping into the studio, I was ready to back out.
Despite my apprehension, I went. And it turned out to be a life-altering experience. In that pole dance class, I found welcoming instructors, a vibrant community of fellow dancers, and, surprisingly, my favorite way to exercise. Unlike other dance or aerial activities I’d tried, pole dance was incredibly beginner-friendly. Right from the start, you could learn impressive-looking tricks and feel a sense of accomplishment. For the rest of Winter Term, I was hooked, practicing pole every day at the studio.
Upon returning to college, however, reality hit. The closest pole studio was 45 minutes away, and without a car, regular classes seemed impossible. I resigned myself to the idea of maybe resuming pole over the summer if I wasn’t tied up with a job.
Then, at a circus club meeting, our President, Zoe, casually mentioned that OBurlesque was getting a dance pole and that we, as club members, would have access to it. I could hardly believe my ears. A few weeks later, OBurlesque officers actually assembled a stage pole right there in Hales Gymnasium. I jumped at the chance to dance again. Just like at my first studio, I quickly connected with other pole dancers, learned from them, and deepened my passion.
At the end of the year, the current Pole Officer approached me. She was graduating and asked if I would consider nominating myself for the role of Pole Officer for the following year. Despite my nerves, I put my name forward and was eventually welcomed onto the OBurlesque Board. It was a privilege to become part of one of Oberlin’s most energetic and supportive student organizations.
Practicing a layback pole dance move.
In my time as Pole Officer, I’ve created a newsletter that now reaches over 100 students, led numerous training sessions, and hosted beginner pole classes that regularly attract five or more participants. I even had the opportunity to perform pole dance in a circus showcase, challenging preconceived notions about pole and introducing a new art form to our performances. This December, we’re planning a collaborative performance between OBurlesque and OCircus. I’m incredibly excited and a little nervous!
What I love most is introducing other students to pole dance. It’s a chance to break down stereotypes, encourage athleticism, and explore sensuality in a welcoming and accessible dance form. Being involved with Obie Pole has been such a rewarding experience, completely reshaping my view of exercise and fitness. Now, I actually look forward to doing crunches and push-ups in the evening, knowing it will help me improve my pole skills. I no longer dread stretching or arm workouts, and I even tolerate planks – all thanks to pole.
And the best part is, as a student, anyone can join in.
Here are my top ten reasons why I’m so enthusiastic about Obie Pole and why you should consider trying pole dance, especially if you’re searching for “Pole Dance Near Me”:
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Boost Your Self-Esteem: Seriously, watching videos of yourself dancing on the pole is an instant confidence booster. You’ll see yourself in a powerful and graceful way you might not have expected. Pole dance is a fantastic way to enhance your body image and feel amazing in your own skin.
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Improve Strength, Coordination, and Flexibility: Pole dance is a full-body workout. You’ll build incredible strength, improve your coordination without even realizing you’re working hard, and gain flexibility you never thought possible. You might even find yourself surprisingly buff and ready for some friendly arm wrestling! ♡ Looking for a fun way to get fit? “Pole dance near me” could be your answer.
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Affordable Fitness Fun: Pole dance classes at dedicated studios can be quite expensive. Finding a more affordable option, like a community class or a studio with introductory deals, is a huge bonus. If you’re a student, like in my case with Obie Pole, it can be incredibly accessible. Searching for “pole dance near me” might reveal surprisingly affordable options in your local area. $$
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Guaranteed Fun with Friends: Pole dance classes are inherently fun. Bring your friends along, and you’re practically guaranteed* to have an amazing time laughing, learning, and supporting each other. It’s a fantastic social activity and a unique bonding experience.
- *Okay, maybe 99.9% guaranteed fun. But pretty close!
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Stress Melter: Life getting overwhelming? Step into a pole dance class and watch your stress melt away like this: *snaps fingers*. The combination of physical activity, music, and learning new skills is a fantastic way to de-stress and clear your mind.
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Unleash Your Inner Dancer (and Beyonce Fan): Want to blast your favorite music and spin like a superstar? Pole dance is your chance! Put on Beyonce, or whoever gets you moving, and let loose. It’s liberating, empowering, and a whole lot of fun.
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Conversation Starter: “So, what do you do for fun?” “Oh, I’m a pole dancer.” Boom! Instantaneously interesting story for parties and social gatherings. It’s a unique and intriguing hobby that’s sure to spark conversations and break the ice.
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Mystery and Intrigue: Enjoy a little playful mystery? When your friends ask where you’re headed at 7 pm on a Monday, just give a knowing smile and say, “Dance class.” Let them wonder! (⌐■_■) It adds a fun, secretive element to your week.
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Happy Hormones Galore: Pole dance is a fantastic endorphin booster. Those “happy hormones” released during exercise will leave you feeling energized, positive, and ready to take on the world. It’s a natural mood enhancer and a great way to combat the blues.
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Join a Supportive Community: Pole dancing is more than just a workout; it’s a community. You’ll find yourself surrounded by supportive, encouraging individuals who believe that “one size fits all” doesn’t apply to dance or body types. Everyone, and anyone, can pole dance and find their place within this welcoming community. Searching for “pole dance near me” isn’t just about finding a class; it’s about finding your tribe.
Doing pole dance in my Halloween Catwoman costume.
Obie Pole truly exemplifies Oberlin’s dedication to supporting its students’ passions and well-being. The college, along with the support of OBurlesque and OCircus, has allowed Obie Pole to flourish. As one of the few college pole dance groups, we’re fortunate to have the resources and backing to challenge conventional ideas about dance and sexuality, and to cultivate a positive and inclusive space for students to express themselves.
And as I always tell students curious about trying pole dance: you are already perfect to start. You need absolutely no prior experience, no specific body type, and it’s truly never too late to begin.
Ready to try it out? If you’re an Oberlin student, follow us on Instagram @obiepole or join our newsletter to learn more about Obie Pole. For any questions, feel free to email me at [email protected].
And don’t miss The Cirquelesque Casino on December 2nd! OBurlesque and OCircus are joining forces to bring you an evening of dazzling performances featuring silks, straps, pole, trapeze, lyra, juggling, and acrobatics. Expect mocktails, glamour, and a whole lot of fun. =^..^=
