Choosing your first wedding dance song is a deeply personal and significant decision as you prepare for your reception. It’s a moment that encapsulates your love story and sets the tone for your celebration. Many couples dedicate considerable time and effort to finding the ideal song. The options can feel endless, and the factors to consider are numerous. Do you envision a tender ballad that perfectly captures the romance of the moment, or a more upbeat tune that reflects your personalities as a couple? Beyond tempo, perhaps a song tied to a cherished memory resonates with you, or maybe you’re seeking something entirely fresh and unique. Ultimately, selecting a song you both simply adore is perfectly valid.
Experts in the wedding music industry observe that couples today prioritize personal connection when choosing their first dance song. “Couples are overwhelmingly choosing songs that hold deep personal meaning, whether through the lyrics themselves or a shared memory,” notes Cara Samantha, bandleader of Highline for Élan Artists. “While some may consider a mid-tempo song, the vast majority lean towards ballads or soulful, slower pieces.”
DJ Chris Stiles of Élan Artists echoes this sentiment, highlighting the trend of distinctiveness. “The most prominent trend I’m seeing is couples seeking songs with genuine meaning and a unique touch that represents them,” he explains. Despite this focus on personalization, some songs consistently rise in popularity. Recent data from Spotify reveals that classic choices remain dominant in the realm of First Wedding Dance Songs. In 2024, Elvis Presley’s “Can’t Help Falling in Love” and Etta James’s “At Last” emerged as the top two favorites among American couples. Contemporary hits, particularly within the country genre like Chris Stapleton’s “Joy of My Life,” also feature prominently. And of course, mainstays like Ed Sheeran’s “Perfect” and Taylor Swift’s “Lover” continue to be beloved selections.
Need more inspiration for your debut on the dance floor as a married couple? We’ve consulted with wedding music experts and BRIDES editors to curate a list of exceptional first wedding dance songs to consider for your special day.
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Image: Bride and groom share their first dance as husband and wife, captured from an aerial perspective with wedding guests surrounding them.
Timeless First Dance Song Choices
“All of Me” by John Legend
Romantic Lyrics: “Give your all to me / I’ll give my all to you / You’re my end and my beginning”
John Legend’s “All of Me” remains a steadfast choice for first wedding dances due to its heartfelt lyrics and soulful melody. Its message of complete devotion resonates deeply with couples starting their married life.
“Like I’m Gonna Lose You” by Jasmine Thompson
Romantic Lyrics: “So I’m gonna love you / Like I’m gonna lose you / I’m gonna hold you / Like I’m saying goodbye”
This emotionally charged duet, originally by Meghan Trainor and John Legend, and beautifully covered by Jasmine Thompson, speaks to cherishing every moment with your loved one. Its poignant message makes it a powerful option for a first dance song.
“Unchained Melody” by The Righteous Brothers
Romantic Lyrics: “Oh, my love, my darling / I’ve hungered for your touch”
A classic for generations, “Unchained Melody” evokes timeless romance. Its sweeping melody and longing lyrics make it a deeply moving selection for a wedding first dance.
“At Last” by Etta James
Romantic Lyrics: “At last my love has come along / My lonely days are over and life is like a song, oh yeah”
Etta James’ iconic voice and the triumphant lyrics of “At Last” perfectly capture the joy of finding true love. This song is a celebration of finally finding “the one,” making it an ideal first dance song.
“Can’t Help Falling in Love” by Elvis Presley
Romantic Lyrics: “Take my hand / Take my whole life too / For I can’t help falling in love with you”
Elvis Presley’s gentle ballad is a perennial favorite for wedding first dances. Its simple yet profound declaration of love and iconic melody ensure its enduring appeal.
“The Way You Look Tonight” by Frank Sinatra
Romantic Lyrics: “There is nothing for me but to love you / And the way you look tonight”
Frank Sinatra’s smooth vocals and the song’s romantic lyrics create an atmosphere of classic elegance. “The Way You Look Tonight” is a sophisticated and timeless choice for a first dance.
“Amazed” by Lonestar
Romantic Lyrics: “I want to spend the rest of my life with you by my side / Forever and ever”
Lonestar’s country crossover hit is a powerful declaration of being utterly captivated by love. Its heartfelt lyrics and soaring chorus make it a popular and emotionally resonant first dance song.
Contemporary & Modern First Dance Songs
“Joy of My Life” by Chris Stapleton
Romantic Lyrics: “She’s sweet to me / Must be the luckiest man alive / Did I tell you, baby / You are the joy of my life?”
Chris Stapleton’s soulful country ballad is a modern favorite. “Joy of My Life” expresses pure adoration and gratitude for a partner who brings immeasurable happiness, perfect for a heartfelt first dance.
“Perfect” by Ed Sheeran and Beyoncé
Romantic Lyrics: “But darling, just kiss me slow / Your heart is all I own / And in your eyes, you’re holding mine”
Ed Sheeran’s “Perfect,” especially the duet version with Beyoncé, is a contemporary romantic anthem. Its sweet melody and lyrics about finding lasting love make it a consistently popular first dance song choice.
“Lover” by Taylor Swift
Romantic Lyrics: “Can I go where you go? / Can we always be this close forever and ever?”
Taylor Swift’s “Lover” is a modern classic for romance. Its tender lyrics about intimate and enduring love, coupled with its gentle melody, make it a favorite for first dances.
“Thinking Out Loud” by Ed Sheeran
Romantic Lyrics: “And darling I will be loving you ’til we’re 70 / And baby my heart could still fall as hard at 23”
Another Ed Sheeran hit, “Thinking Out Loud,” speaks to a love that grows stronger with time. Its romantic lyrics about aging together and enduring love make it a meaningful and popular first dance selection.
“A Thousand Years” by Christina Perri
Romantic Lyrics: “I have died every day, waiting for you / Darling, don’t be afraid, I have loved you for a thousand years”
Made famous by the Twilight saga, “A Thousand Years” is an epic love ballad. Its powerful vocals and lyrics about timeless love and devotion create a dramatic and romantic atmosphere for a first dance.
“Yours” by Russell Dickerson
Romantic Lyrics: “I came to life when I first kissed you / The best me has his arms around you / You make me better than I was before / Thank God I’m yours”
Russell Dickerson’s “Yours” is a heartfelt country song about finding completeness in love. Its sincere lyrics and gentle melody make it a touching and popular first dance choice.
“10,000 Hours” by Dan + Shay
Romantic Lyrics: “I’d spend 10,000 hours and 10,000 more / Oh, if that’s what it takes to learn that sweet heart of yours”
Dan + Shay’s “10,000 Hours” expresses a willingness to invest endless time and effort into love. Its sweet sentiment and catchy melody make it a modern romantic favorite for a wedding first dance.
Unique & Meaningful First Dance Songs
“500 Miles” by Sleeping at Last
Romantic Lyrics: “But I would walk 500 miles / And I would walk 500 more / Just to be the man who walked a thousand miles / To fall down at your door”
Sleeping at Last’s rendition of “500 Miles” offers a beautiful, acoustic take on the classic Proclaimers song. Its earnest lyrics about going to great lengths for love make it a unique and heartfelt first dance option.
“Eight Days a Week” by The Beatles
Romantic Lyrics: “Ain’t got nothin’ but love babe / Eight days a week”
For couples who want something upbeat yet still romantic, The Beatles’ “Eight Days a Week” is a fun and charming choice. Its cheerful melody and declaration of unending love make it a joyful first dance song.
“Your Song” by Elton John
Romantic Lyrics: “I hope you don’t mind / That I put down in words / How wonderful life is while you’re in the world”
Elton John’s “Your Song” is a timeless classic about expressing love through music. Its gentle piano melody and heartfelt lyrics make it a deeply romantic and meaningful first dance choice.
“Home” by Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros
Romantic Lyrics: “Ah, home, let me come home / Home is wherever I’m with you”
Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros’ “Home” is an indie-folk anthem about finding home in your loved one. Its warm, folksy sound and lyrics about love as a sanctuary make it a unique and heartfelt first dance song.
“Better Together” by Jack Johnson
Romantic Lyrics: “Yeah, we’ll look at the stars when we’re together / Well, it’s always better when we’re together”
Jack Johnson’s laid-back and sweet “Better Together” celebrates the simple joy of being with your partner. Its acoustic vibe and lyrics about companionship make it a relaxed and heartwarming first dance option.
“Lucky” by Jason Mraz and Colbie Caillat
Romantic Lyrics: “I’m lucky I’m in love with my best friend / Lucky to have been where I have been / Lucky to be coming home again”
Jason Mraz and Colbie Caillat’s duet “Lucky” is a charming and relatable song about finding love with your best friend. Its upbeat tempo and sweet lyrics about friendship and love make it a delightful first dance choice.
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Image: A romantic moment captured as the groom dips his bride during their first dance, sealed with a kiss.
Choosing the Right First Dance Song: Key Considerations
Selecting your first wedding dance song is a deeply personal journey. Here are some helpful questions to guide you:
- What songs reflect your relationship? Consider songs that have special meaning to you as a couple – perhaps a song from your first date, a shared favorite artist, or a song that encapsulates your inside jokes.
- What feeling do you want to evoke? Do you envision a romantic and tearful moment, or a joyful and celebratory dance? The tempo and lyrics should align with the emotion you want to create.
- Does the song fit your dance style? Think about whether you envision a slow, romantic sway, a more choreographed dance, or something in between. The song’s tempo and rhythm should be conducive to your desired dance style.
- Are the lyrics meaningful and appropriate? Pay close attention to the lyrics to ensure they align with your values and the message you want to convey on your wedding day.
- Do you both love the song? Ultimately, your first dance song should be a song that you both genuinely love and enjoy. It’s a moment for you as a couple, so make sure it’s a reflection of your shared taste.
By considering these factors and exploring the diverse range of first wedding dance songs available, you can confidently select the perfect soundtrack for your unforgettable first dance as a married couple.
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